Heidi, Derrick, and Calvin. The Schmidt and Ostner families. There are no words to say that can ease the pain when a family suffers the sudden loss of a loved one, especially the loss of your child, and brother. Take each day for what it is. Let the hurt come to allow the healing. Allow the love and support from family and friends to come into your hearts. Lean on others to help carry the burden. But most of all, remember the great times. My family sends love and prayers to yours.